Nicole, a first-time surrogate from Ohio, is the quintessential "boy mom," raising three sons alongside her husband, Tim. A fun fact she shares about herself is that she is a Christmas baby 🎄🎅 so growing up, it always felt extra special to have a holiday birthday, and she enjoys celebrating surrounded by family and friends during the most magical time of the year. As a registered nurse, she brings compassion, intelligence, and a great sense of humor to everything she does. In her free time, Nicole enjoys crafting, showcasing her keen attention to detail. Her family are passionate Disney fans, embracing all things Disney. Grounded in a strong faith, Nicole and her family live by values that deeply guide their lives. Her journey to surrogacy is truly inspiring—discover more about Nicole’s story below! Thank you for sharing your journey with us, Nicole!
Her Path to Surrogacy
"I absolutely love being pregnant! However, my own experience with becoming pregnant didn’t come easy with our first born, Matthew, due to poor egg quality. Tim and I vividly remember the heart-wrenching feelings of uncertainty during that time, not knowing if we’d ever become parents. Those experiences have given me a profound understanding of the longing that other couples feel on their complicated roads to parenthood, and it’s my heartfelt desire to provide hope and an opportunity to someone else who is on that journey to parenthood. Being able to give that gift is something that we, as a family, are truly passionate about."
Choosing Collective Surrogacy
"When it came to choosing an agency to support us on this journey, I felt an immediate connection with Collective. From my first phone call with my coordinator, I just knew I had found the right partner. The way they approach surrogacy with care and compassion resonated with me, and I felt supported from the very beginning."
Finding the Right Match
"From the moment I read our IPs' profile it felt like a match and that feeling was instantly confirmed on our match call. I think it all came down to a mix of shared values and open communication. During our initial conversations, I really appreciated how honest and transparent we were with each other about our hopes, expectations, and even our concerns. It felt like we were on the same page regarding what we wanted from this experience. "
A Journey of Love and Support
"I grew up with my husband, Tim, who happens to be my high school sweetheart. We’ve been together for over 15 years now, married for 13, and we have three wonderful boys ages 7, 3, and 1. They bring so much joy and energy into our lives, and I wouldn’t trade our chaotic, laughter-filled days for anything.
My family has been super supportive of my decision to become a surrogate, which truly means the world to me. It's comforting to know that they are all behind me on this journey."
Words of Advice
"To any surrogates just beginning their journey, I would say: embrace every moment! It’s such a beautiful experience, and trusting the process will make it all the more rewarding. You’re not just carrying a baby; you’re helping to fulfill someone’s dreams, and that’s an incredible gift."
Looking Forward to Milestones
"Looking ahead, I’m eagerly anticipating those incredible milestone moments—like seeing that positive pregnancy test, hearing the heartbeat for the first time, the excitement of the 20-week scan, and, of course, delivery. I can hardly wait to see my intended parents hold their little one in their arms, experiencing the joy and love they’ve been dreaming of".
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